The longer you train a particular system, the more you begin
to see that all of the techniques are interrelated; that is, they are all
connected. Or, from another perspective, the body is connected; when one part
moves, other parts move as well. Isn’t this a lesson that should be applied to
life?
When we train together, we “listen” and receive the other
person’s attack. We don’t formulate our response before the other person
initiates an attack. So too, we shouldn’t rigidly adhere to an ideology before
we consider the merits and shortcomings of the other side. This also reminds me
of a line in the Happo: harmonize any situation without difficulty.When we train together in partner drills or two-person forms, we say, “It’s like a dance; there shouldn’t be a winner or a loser.” Isn’t this a lesson we should take away from training?
I’m reminded of another line from the Happo: Know your
opponent’s hand like your own. I think when we train hard and seriously for a
long time, we begin to know ourselves. When we honestly can say we know
ourselves, then we begin to know others. This, I think, goes back to the
interconnectedness of all things.
A simple lesson in stepping: sometimes it is important to
step back. You can’t always be on the attack. It reminds me of something I
encountered in T’ai Chi years ago: Invest in loss. I don’t remember what book
it was quoted in, but it went something like this: Someone once asked Cheng Man-ch'ing how he became so good at “pushing” (in the T’ai Chi push hands drill). He
said he spent seven years getting pushed.
The mind guides the intention or something like that. Some
say the mind directs the ki or chi. T.T. Liang said, “The imagination becomes
reality.” Shakespeare said, “There’s nothing either good or bad but thinking
makes it so.” In training the martial arts, we train the mind to direct our
response. How then should the mind be used in life?
And then there's patience and dealing with the unexpected, and, of course, balance is very important in martial arts and in life.I think there were some other things, but I have to go train. If I remember them while I'm out training, I'll try to remember to write them down. But I may forget....That's okay. Just train.
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